It is inevitably going to happen to you when you are out looking for women. Trying to initiate a conversation with girls is bound to be one of your goals for the night. Wanting to talk to girls is probably one of your goals of the night. Once you find her, you stop to think how you can best get her interest. You start off by talking to her and her friends. You have gotten the courage to talk to the girls. Something doesn’t seem right though. All her friends are very receptive but the girl you were focusing on isn’t giving you much action to work with.
Don’t fret. It’s not that she isn’t into you or that you aren’t her type. It is because you have subconsciously and probably unintentionally boosted her ego and feeling of self-worth.
She got the feeling of importance and now the ball is in her court. She doesn’t want to lose her value her friends see her in so she doesn’t respond as some girl who’s a clinch. She’d rather keep her value with her girlfriends than show her interest in you. What is the solution to this? Changing the approach! It is important to note that this tip comes from Tiffany Taylor’s Guy Gets Girl ebook.
This is when you take that interest and attention from the woman you are interested in and focus that attention onto one or more of her girlfriends. This is going to stir up some competition in girls especially in the one you are really interested in.She is going to realize that you aren’t providing her with any attention and she is going to start wondering what went wrong? She is going to try to now get your attention back, which is what you’ll gladly take. See how the guy gets the girl with this?
This technique allows you to challenge a girl and makes her try to get your attention instead of the old you trying to get the girl. Use this technique from Guy Gets Girl to increase your chances of being successful in the dating scene and to get the girl.
