There isn’t a single man around who would not love to have the secret to getting a girl to fall for them quickly and easily, and would love to know how to impress a girl in a way that gets results. Wouldn’t it be nice if there was a book that was guaranteed to ensure that you knew clearly how to approach a girl with consistent positive results.
Well, that is not really the case (aside of our recommendation on the right) because finding the best ways to impress a girl really depends on the girl herself. But be aware there are some really good things you can do that all girls love that will help you both get, and keep, the girl if that’s your intention.
Remember from the outset, aim to be confident not cocky. For whatever reason men seem to confuse the two and will often turn a girl off by being obnoxious rather than simply confident. So, what is the difference between the two? Well, a guy who is obnoxious will address a girl in a term like baby, or babe. Without even asking, an obnoxious guy will join a girl at a table and start talking, this is not confidence, this is simply being rude. If you want to put over confidence instead, then you should focus on approaching a girl whilst looking at her directly into her eyes. Introduce yourself and ask if you can join her, dance, etc. whatever the situation dictates. It is okay to take her gently by the elbow, but refrain from putting your arm around her or trying to hold her hand. Guide, not pull. That is the guy who gets the girl!
If you want to be the guy who knows how to approach a girl in a way that gets results then after you have approached her and she is open to chatting to you, talk to her about her, when she asks about you share a little but don’t talk too much about yourself. Be clear – girls really like guys who make an effort to listen.
Try to work in a compliment about her eyes and lips. Get her to think about kissing, but don’t be crude. Look to compliment her with comments that relate specifically to her, like admire her smile or the way she laughs, that way your avoiding the obvious and cliche comments like “I think you’re hot”, and by being specific she knows you are focused on her.
OK, perhaps you aren’t they guy that always gets the girl (yet!), nevertheless is you start by treating a women like she is a person with feelings and not simply a prize to win over, you’ll be amazed how this simple concept will raise the amount of attention you get from women. She may not immediately tell you, if ever, but a woman wants to be sure that you really want them. Find the right words and use them and before you know it, you will get the girl.
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