Real Relationship Solutions for Real People Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor, writes… … Finding love is doesn’t have to be like searching for the proverbial needle in a haystack. Admitedly, it can feel that way, I can assure you that you can find your ideal partner if you follow these steps. The values and attributes you want in your ideal mate will determine what actions you take to find him or her. Whether you want fun companionship or lasting love and commitment, knowing what you want is the first step There are three critical steps to relationship attraction. Attraction or chemistry is not about how attractive you look, having the perfect come on lines, or making the right moves. I’m referring to who you are that comes from the inside that will determine how attractive you are and the kind of vibe you give off. There is a universal principle known as the Law of Attraction which states like attracts like. When you get clear on exactly what you want, exude the essence of what it feels like to already have it, and let go of the how and when, you’ve removed the resistance to having the relationship you deeply desire and deserve. Let me explain these steps more clearly.
1. Know What You Want. We now know that everything is energy. Physics has taught us that. We are part of this universe and our thoughts are part of the creative energy that molds the energy. For example, everything you see was once at first an idea. Knowing what you want helps you clarify your intentions and makes a very clear statement to yourself and to the universe. Many of us get wishy washy here and end up having relationships and experiences we don’t think we’d necessary chose. And you did choose. We run on the familiar or safe setting that sounds something like… “well, I’m not sure, whatever, maybe, maybe not.” There’s not much deliberate intent in these kinds of feelings or thoughts. So get clear about what you want. Go for it and make a comprehensive list of what you want.
2. Imagine how it will feel when.. To charge up your attraction power, get into the feeling state (the essence) of what it will feel like when. When she tells you how much she appreciates you, when he brings flowers home just because. The smiles, the laughter, the inside jokes you share. Imagine what it will be like when …
3. Let Go of the How and When. Lastly, become an allower and go with the flow. When you let go and go with the flow, you’ve let go of resistance to having your love show up. Your only job is to feel good all the way to having him or her show up. From that place you’ll be inspired to actions that put you in the places, be surrounded by circumstances, synchronicities and small miracles that orchestrate the perfect meeting. That’s how it happened for me and that’s what I teach my clients to do for themselves. Find out what people are saying about Relationship Group Coaching at www.nanettegeiger.com/groupclass
