What would it do for your dating life if you were able to talk females with confidence and make a natural connection? Are you beginning to realize that the only way to increase your options of getting into a great romance is to learn to communicate with girls? Think about it, if you never do basically have to take the choices which show up for you. Are you finding that this is leaving you with relationships that don’t meet your needs? If so, and you are truly ready to put a stop to your frustrations then here are five proven strategies for approaching females.
• The ‘ I already know you’ strategy.
This opener is not so much about what you say as it is about how you say it. The idea is to act as if you already know her and just act as you would if you ran into a friend in public. Look at it like this, most of the time you end up saying something like: “Hey, Hey what’s happening?” There is no reason why you can’t say that to a complete stranger as well. Not only that, you can bet that if you approach her with the attitude that you already know her that she will be instantly open to you.
• The insult tactic!
Ok, you have to be a cautious with this approach and make sure that you only use it on a women who might be a little bit of fun. You can say something like: “I bet you are really nasty.” Of course she will want to know why and then you tell her: “Well, I bet you have to be. You have men asking you out all the time there is no way you can say yes to all of them.” You got to make sure that it’s something you can turn around and make positive. This will make for a exciting surprise, and the element of surprise is a great ice breaker.
• The advice approach
This is just timeless, and always works when you ask her for a ‘women’s opinion’. Asking a girl for advice is a killer way a brilliant tactic to impress her and you can bet that she will answer you instantaneously. If you are shopping, ask her for an opinion on two brands which you are trying so you can decide between. Or you can even ask about something you have been discussing with one of your male friends. Anything which is engaging and even a bit controversial is sure to get her interested in speaking to you.
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• The compliment approach
This can work really well or backfire. The way to do this is to lay off of the compliments about her beauty and find something else instead. look at it this way, she has heard ‘you are beautiful’ from every Tom Dick and Harry before you. Find anything she is sporting and compliment her on either that, or the way that she carries herself. Anything other than her looks will be a complete breath of fresh air to a girl who hears compliments about how gorgeous her looks are everyday.
• The direct ‘I’m in a hurry strategy’
This one is might get you shot down the most but it can also get results super fast. If you are like me like and to get right to the point and wants to increase your possibilities with girls, then this is the tactic which you must master. The idea is to get across that you are in a rush but that you would really regret it if you did not ask her to meet you sometime. Notice that you are asking to meet her sometime and not just to get her number. This lets her know that you know what you want and will give her a reason to say yes or no so that you don’t have to sweat. After you have set up the place to meet, get her digits ‘on the possibility that something comes up’ and end the conversation nicely. After all, you have to run right?
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Pick one of theseopeners and work with it for a week, then move on to the different strategy. If you are like most men you have a special approach and your own style which really works for you. Doing these openers one at a time is going to you to find out what it is so that you can get better results fast. Good luck.
