Are you burnt out with spending your Friday evenings watching the TV scarfing down a 14 inch pizza pie by yourself? How many beautiful women did you look at this week and say in your heart: “Man, I wish I knew what it would take to get a hold of her.” That can be quite frustrating, especially to think that you know those women are out with some dude on the weekend as you are making the ’one two topping special for one please’ phone call. So wouldn’t you rather be hanging out with your girl instead? Well, if that is your goal you probably want to read this article.
Ok, here is the first of the seven steps to getting a girlfriend: start conversations to every stranger that you encounter. This means pretty girls, not so pretty girls , old ladies, even the chunkified guy with the ’one two topping special for one please’ face that looks like it hasn’t seen a bar of soap for a month of Sundays. And for what reason? Well, because if you just talk to the pretty girls and ignore everyone else you better believe that the ‘all or nothing ’ mentality and the dull people skills will make you into a marble mouth by the time she enters the picture. The secret to scoring with beautiful ladies is a great personality and if you are not speaking to anyone but them you can bet that your people skills won’t be any good once enters the picture.
The second thing which you have to do is alter your patterns of everyday life. You have most likely seen all of the single women you are likely to see in your present routine. Of course, you can just wait for attractive girls to show up but if you wish to up the odds youneed to be the one to get the ball rolling. Go to a place you regularly would not go or even take a different route home from the office and stop at a different store. Anything to mix up the patterns and increase your opportunities. You probably will be surprised at what you a difference this will make.
Third, keep your sense of self-worth under your influence only by not sweating what she feels about you. If a girl does not care for you then you know it is time to redirect your attention to find the woman who does. Don’t worry. The one person who you have to live with twenty four seven is yourself so you might as well be the person who has the last say when it comes to your self-esteem. If a girl sees that you command this level of self-worth you can be certain that she will find you more attractive.
Fourth, get good at being a bit of a troublemaker and pursuing what you desire. Don’t wait around and say: “Wow, she’s really pretty. I wonder if she could be into to me.” The first sentence is fine, but the second one is a real chink in any man’s armor. If you desire this girl, simply pursue her. Believe me, you will find out much faster like this than you ever will in doing a lot of ’I wonder what she meant by that’ ponderings.
Fifth, get an approach under your belt so that if you can’t think of what to say when you first see her. Make certain that you can use it anytime and it will be your life saver. A good thing to remember here is to avoid he clichés: “Come here often? What’s your name? How are you doing, my name is..” You are getting it. Surely, there are still dudes using those and you can be assured that these girls know how to know them down in a hurry. Come up with something which is normal and leaves her the opportunity to wonder about your intentions.
Sixth is stop trying to impress her. A woman will be more impressed by you not worrying if you care to impress her than if you are trying too hard to make you blush or say ‘Wow’. The prettier the woman is, the more numb she is going to be to anything which you have attempted. So unless you can make part the red sea, keep this casual and don’t sweat whether or not she likes you. You can bet that you will make much more to happen that way and save yourself a lot of heartache along the way.
And last of all, seventh is to request the date after the first meeting. Of course, you might not know if she is going to agree or even if she is going to tell you to drop dead. That’s ok, you can always take two cars to the first meeting and run the other way tearing your hair out and screaming if things get crazy. However, if you mull around and wait for her to make a move you are bound to get filed as a friend only simply for the sake of ending your torment of indecision. If she says no right away, better to get the story now instead of after three weeks of testing the waters.
So put these into practice today on each of these and work at them until you become a master. These will ensure you that you will get what you want when it comes to women.
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